Making him watch is such an amazingly erotic thing to do. It appeals to every exhibitionist bone in my body. The fact that he’s mine and can touch me at anytime does not make it less arousing than doing this for a stranger. I love being watched and putting on a show.
It’s a powerful thing. You get to show him exactly how you like to be touched, what you want him to do to you, and just how much he turns you on. He gets to watch your fingers/toys bring you pleasure. An enjoyable experience for both.
I love when he’s this close to me and can see every minute movement I make. Knowing my juices are flowing on him or that I’m close enough for him to taste them heightens the experience. However, I know many women are too self-conscious to try. It’s not easy being this open, but believe me when I say the reward is worth it. If you’re a bit more shy than I am, sit him across the room and let him watch you play. Make it more interesting by not allowing him to touch himself while he watches.
No matter how great your sex life, it’s never a bad thing to add dimensions to your foreplay ;)